Colliding....

I was thinking...about what you said that when your in a relationship

you are responsible for the other persons happiness. 

Maybe that's not

true...

....maybe we've been brainwashed to think that's the truth so we have no choice but to trudge through relationships constantly trying to make someone else happy

instead of ourself 

first...

...maybe when two people are in a relationship they are not responsible

for the another persons happiness..

...rather just your own because if your truly happy and

open to goodness...

you are whole... 

We aren't two halves making a

whole...but two wholes colliding to be a bigger and better whole..a happier whole...

I'd like to think that people and experiences add to our life...a lover

accentuates us...helps us shine a little brighter...and if we all had that

in a lover...happiness would have no choice but to flourish...because happiness was always there...it's just become brighter..more meaningful...fuller..richer...

Here is to you..

..the whole you that exist...

 and

my whole self

colliding....

existing with

one 

another...