You should know...

that I am thoughtful about life, cautious of others, critical of myself....

So as I thought about the question you posed to me..at first it frightened me.. it frightened me because like everyone, we never know what others expectations are of us and its scary to know that someone might not like us for who we are, what we think or how we act.....But at this point in my life it is better to be just me and not worry too  much about what others might think of me.  I am probably more like you than you think when it comes to the answer you seek..

what I want is a healthy loving successful monogamous relationship at some point...with someone I can laugh with cry with play with live with!  beyond that I cant think much further.. the day to day stuff, dinner, movies, lazy saturdays, drinks, adult games, travel, read to...yada yada yada..blah blah blah..